Kamis, 21 April 2011

Are men more sexual desire than women?

If we decide to go through our town to ask this question anyone, we would have an opinion is almost always Yes certainly. It is very likely that you have answered Yes to this complex issue. But what is it in this section?

The influence of social factors
If we look at clinical practice and focus on the couple's therapy, but we appreciate the fact that often the man who claimed a larger amount of sex, to the lack of sex in one of the most common complaints of the male half of a heterosexual couple who complain.

A point for the popular response would be to pornography has the man as its primary consumer, a phenomenon that recurs in the use of prostitution.

But we must not become excited by what we see at first glance. Question to answer now going further would be: can you explain these data only for that the man had more sexual desire than women? Personally I think not, at least not exclusively so. Socially desirable, can play a role.

Fulfillment of role (male and female) are appointed by the Social desirability, stated that some men do not admit to never having a low desire, and perhaps also to pornography has not been consumed by a greater number of women. If you think about it, we realize that our society is not equal to a woman who says, for example, not a sexual relationship with a man, the man who refuses to have sex with a woman.

It seems clear the importance of social factors in these results, but finer along, a new question: "would it be sufficient influence of social desirability to explain the differences?"

It is possible that the answer to this question is "no". It is nevertheless "pretend" play an important role, but there is some truth to the idea that men have more sexual needs than women. But if we admit that Yes, (we do a more in-depth look at the issue), "What we can find reasons to explain this?"

Why more men want?
Hormonal basis
Are many and varied studies were carried out on animals that measure the impact of testosterone (male sex hormones) in the queue. It is true that we have shown that the ratio of testosterone in the blood and sexual desire, so that this does not mean that the man has, since so much testosterone has a greater sexual desire.

However, no shortage of studies conclude that the greatest amount of testosterone in humans causes a desire for more and all studies that try to link-sex hormones, clashing with the difficulty of effective measures and it is conceivable that actual sexual activity as a whole more due to psychological factors.

The explanation is as follows, sexual pleasure, intense pleasure, activates the same brain nuclei that are activated when the pleasure to consume any drug. Consequently, acts of sexual desire and return to consume the substance in a similar way.

Someone who has a permanent (sex, or substance), if you do not have the pleasure, begin to feel a desire to get it, think the situation (fantasies), dreams about it and try to find ways to have fun. If that person consumes not substance, or not to participate in the queue for a while, just to go eventually, desire for material/queue. Similarly, if you consume usually subject or gender, there is no reason to decline.

If you share this idea, easy to understand the logic of the data obtained from a survey about masturbation, men and women, which concluded that masturbate teenagers, on average once per day, while girls have between 1 and 2 times a week.

Strange is that this study quantified the difference between men and women disappeared when you compare groups for single men and women who had previously been in a relationship, sexual satisfaction.

If we take into account what has been until now about sex, we realize that sex education children receive is very different for a child. Messages repressive anti-sexual and is mainly found in female education. The boys are allowed and have also to brag friends of acts such as masturbation.

This is very different than girls acknowledge from the peer group, that he masturbated, it was not usual. Sex as a way to please a man. Preserving virginity at any price, etc. May be some messages be, supported young people.

Conclusions
In the light of the theory are given, the conclusion is clear:
-A boy starts to masturbate and be rewarded for it.
-Go with their colleagues in the first pornographic films.
-Get social award, which may "go further" in pickups. Number one to lose virginity before.

These are just some examples that show that education in sexual opening does not stop a man from learning to masturbate, but:
-A girl, if you masturbate feel guilty about it, of course, tell you no fear of social penalties and can also prevent the problem.
-No pornography, is the general rule.
-If you go too far with a guy, becomes a "Whore".

It may mean that a man and a woman come together in his first start from different positions, as the man carries a history of education in sexual desire, much higher. That is to say, has grown by masturbation country desire.

There are no conclusive studies to answer our questions, or to certify which theories are right, left, with information, end up with an idea.

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